‘These violent delights have violent endsAnd in their triump die, like fire and powder, which, as they kiss, consume’
Romeo and Juliet – shakespeare
So let’s have some quick lessons before you ask for it.
Open your mouth more :
There’s nothing more frustrating than trying to use your tongue like a car jack to pry those jaws open. Open up so you may explore the inner works of each others mouth.
Stay fresh :
Would you want to be this close to someone’s face space only to find that their mouth smells like the dumpyard. If you’re anticipating a trip to Make out , avoid the stank-inducing foods like onions, garlic and also Pan masala. Stay fresh basically.
Prepare your lips :
Keep your lips relaxed and open slightly to let your partner know that you are ready for a kiss.
Be aggressive :
This is all encompassing. Be more aggressive initiating the kiss. Be more aggressive in the kiss with your tongue and lips. Be more aggressive with your hands. Rubbing. Grabbing. Groping. Don’t be afraid of anything at any moment during a kiss. Be fearless within reason, because dude’s dig that. Don’t hold back.
Especially with that (somewhat) startling statistic above about first kiss impressions, this is important to remember. Don’t kiss her at that all you can eat fish fry. Instead, wait until you drop her off at her place when you walk her to the door. Have mints on deck and at the ready. The same goes for subsequent kisses after the first. Always be aware of the setting and her comfort levels with PDA.
Its not a race :
Don’t forget that in order to become a good kisser you shouldn’t consider it a race. You’re not on schedule here and this isn’t something you have to get done fast. If you are asking how to tell if someone is a good kisser first you should see if they have a soft mouth. You can nibble on each other’s lips and you can gently pull the upper or lower lip of your partner. There are some people who like a bit of teething, but there are also some who don’t like it at all. This is something you have to experiment with to find out what works for your partner. When asking “How can I become a good kisser?” you have to make sure that you pay attention to their reactions.
So, Best of luck.