You must be soul mates if you didn’t have multiple breakups or plate-throwing fights, or countless instances of infidelity to muddle through.
You people met, liked each other and started dating. It was easy. Then you people got married and stayed married because you liked each other.
There were no major road bumps that might lead you to think why your significant other is trying to force the relationship to work. In the right relationship, you’ll realise that it takes ‘effort’, but it doesn’t take ‘work’.
2. The Important Stuff Is The Same
Do your core values align with his?
Do you both agree on whether or not you want kids? What does an ideal night look like to each of you? How frequently do you each exercise?
If you don’t know yourself and if you don’t know what values are truly important to you, you might find it difficult to determine whether or not she is the right one for you. If you find yourself searching for a partner to complete you, you might need to do some searching internally first.
If the big things match up, the little things fall by the wayside.
3. Your Closest Friends Like Him
Your closest friends and family members aren’t you, but they have a pretty good idea of who you are.
In fact, recent research suggests that those closest to you actually know you better than you know yourself.
So if the people who have your best interests at heart don’t get along with your significant other, it could be a warning sign.
Have the patience and willingness to truly listen to your friends’ opinions on your relationship.
4. It’s Almost Scary How Much He Turns You On
You don’t want to hide her from your friends… you want to show her off.
You don’t have a passive-aggressive headache when he are in the mood… you find him so arousing that he can distract you from your work.
You will want to devour your partner. You’ll want to know her thoughts, their feelings, and all about herpreferences.
You will adore his body, his eye wrinkles, and the way he snorts when he laugh his hardest.
You are attracted to her body, mind, heart, and soul.
And you’ll think you didn’t have a sex drive before you met him.
5. You Want To Make His Life As Easy As Possible
People are born problemsolvers, it’s how we see everything. And the way you view your partner is no different.
But you don’t just want to show him the simple solutions… you will want to help him live the happiest and most uncomplicated life possible.
Your jacket will be flying off your shoulders before she even hints that she is cold.
You will hear all about his day even if you are tired.
You will catch her before she falls.
If you have an unrelenting desire to help make her life as pleasurable as possible, take that hint: you really care about this one.
The right partner will inspire you to grow, to step up, to become the best you there ever was.
And you’ll want to fight to keep them. Not that you’ll need to.